For loneliness
Set in Families
Soft cotton flannel · Warm amber · Cedar and clean musk
Fragrance oil for warmers and diffusers, 1 oz vial of it, undiluted. This is the scent, not the ingredient. It is not edible and it is not for skin.
The fragrance, note by note
The warmest and most domestic thing we make, because this season is short of a house with people in it rather than short of comfort.
A fragrance has no power of its own. Every one of these came out of the ground, off a tree, out of a flower that was made and called good long before anyone thought to bottle it. What follows is what each note has meant to people, and where scripture happens to touch it. The meaning is the part we chose on purpose.
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Soft cotton flannel
Brushed cloth, which is the smell of a blanket that lives on the back of a sofa in a house where people sit down. Not perfume. Domestic. It was chosen over the sweeter options because loneliness is not short of sweetness, it is short of somebody else's house.
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Warm amber
The note that fills a room rather than sitting in a corner of it. Psalm 68 is a list of what God does for people nobody is looking after: a father to the fatherless, a defender of widows, and then this line about settling the solitary in a home. It is a housing promise, made to people who did not have one.
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Cedar and clean musk
Wood and warmth underneath, the way a room smells rather than the way a person does. The first thing declared not good in the whole of Genesis, before anything has gone wrong, is a person being alone. Loneliness is not a failure of yours that showed up later. It was named as a problem at the very beginning.
OIL AND ASHES
Set in Families
Soft cotton flannel · Warm amber · Cedar and clean musk
God settles in their own homes those who have been deserted; he frees prisoners and grants them prosperity. But sinful rebels live in the desert.
PSALM 68:6
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All four come printed on the card in the package. You are not choosing one here, you get the whole thread. Read it in full.
1 oz vial of undiluted oil, twice the usual half-ounce bottle. Every passage is printed whole on the card, so you can read them with a dead phone and without scanning anything. The bottle carries the name, what it smells of, and the code.
Where this thread starts
God settles in their own homes those who have been deserted; he frees prisoners and grants them prosperity. But sinful rebels live in the desert.
God settles the solitary in a home. It is a housing promise, and it was made to people who did not have one.
A full ounce
The house standard for a home fragrance oil is half an ounce, and some sell a third. Ours is a full ounce of undiluted oil, roughly twice what the shelf gives you, at a few dollars more. Nothing here is cut with anything.
- Set in Families, 1 oz vial
- $24.00
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Next Verse
This fragrance carries four passages, in order.
All four come printed on the card in the package, so you have the whole thread from the first day. The code on the bottle opens this fragrance's page, and each passage has its own from there, with the chapter it came out of. Reordering sends the same bottle.
- 1 of 4 Psalm 68:6 A housing promise for people without one.
- 2 of 4 Genesis 2:18 The first thing called not good, before anything went wrong.
- 3 of 4 John 14:18 I will not leave you as orphans.
- 4 of 4 Romans 12:5 Belonging to each other, not merely near each other.
The part that matters
Read it every time you pour.
The passage on the card is not decoration and it is not meant to be admired once and then ignored. Stand the card where you keep the warmer and read it while you fill the dish. Out loud, if you are on your own. It takes about four seconds.
That is the whole method, and it is the only part that asks anything of you. The scent is already doing its work without permission: it attaches itself to whatever is in your head while you are smelling it. Give it these words on purpose, the same ones, at the same point in the day, and after a few weeks the smell arrives carrying them. You will not have to remember the verse. It will hand it to you, on the mornings you would never have gone looking.
The first and greatest commandment is to love God with all your heart and all your soul and all your mind. Nothing in a bottle helps anybody keep it, and we have said so elsewhere on this site. But a room that smells of something, tied to a sentence you have now read three hundred times, is a small standing reminder of the thing that matters most. That is worth more than the room smelling good, and the room will smell good anyway.
How to use it
The simplest way is a warmer, electric or tea light. Fill the dish about two thirds with water, add five to ten drops, and let it warm. Top the water up before it runs dry.
The same few drops work in an electric or ultrasonic diffuser. Away from heat altogether, it will scent a wooden bead, a scent stone, or a cotton pad left in a drawer, a closet, a car vent or a vacuum bag, anywhere the air moves and nobody is handling it.
There is no ceremony to get right. What builds the association is doing it the same way, at the same point in the day, with the verse in front of you.
The water matters. Never put this oil in a warmer dish on its own. The water holds the dish near boiling and keeps the oil well below the temperature at which its vapour can catch. A dry dish over a flame will pass that point. An electric warmer is the safer of the two.
What is in the bottle, and what it is not for
Undiluted fragrance oil. Nothing else, and nothing watered down. It is sold at full strength because that is what makes it go a long way: a warmer takes five to ten drops at a time, so one vial is months of them.
This is for scenting a room, not for wearing.
Do not put it on skin, do not swallow it, and keep it away from eyes, children and pets. Fragrance is among the most common contact allergens and this is the concentrated form. It can also mark polished wood, painted surfaces and some plastics, so stand a diffuser on something you do not mind. Some of these smell like food. None of them are. This is not a medicine and makes no claim to treat anything.